Re-Gain

As a boy growing up in Bethesda, Maryland it felt more than coincidental that two extraordinary athletes—trailblazers in their sport—emerged almost simultaneously. I first met Donald Dell at the Edgemoor Club, where his electric presence lit up every conversation about tennis. At the time, he had just been named captain of the U.S. Davis Cup team—a title that seemed to glow with prestige. But Dell was never just a standout player; he was a visionary. Years later, he co-founded the Association of Tennis Professionals (ATP) and launched ProServ, one of the earliest and most influential sports marketing firms. His legal training at Yale and the University of Virginia paired with his passion for tennis, making him a formidable force both in the courtroom and on the court. Representing legends like Arthur Ashe, Stan Smith, and Michael Jordan, he fundamentally changed how athletes navigated business, fame, and legacy. In the 1970s, another name—Deane Beman—buzzed through Bethesda...

Awakening in a Mindless World If there are more neural connections in our brain than stars in the Milky Way, then why are we so clueless?   Embracing my own mindlessness, I step forward.  This vulnerability shifts my paradigm. So how do we become more mindful in a mindless world?  It begins with remembering: everything has been thought of before.   Now the question is—can we think of it again? I grew up courting triumphant disaster,  witnessing the best of financial times in an emotionally distant society.   Raised in the material swirl of 1960s Washington, D.C.,  I longed for future wisdom.  But shame and guilt, born of our self-indulgent world,  have often eclipsed such progress. The question remains:  How adaptive are we, truly, in our quest to survive?   Do we treasure resources for the future—or are we deluded? I’ve come to embrace the insignificance of temporary things,  while holding space for the who...

The Attitude of Mitakuye Oyasin One of my dearest friends once told me that the single most important word in the English language’ve held onto that truth. For over two-thirds of my life, I’ve wrestled with deep sorrow over how we, as humans, treat the Earth—especially when it comes to trash. But I’ve come to see that when I let despair, depression, or even apathy take root, I only add to the harm. Now, just a few years shy of 70, I find myself entering a season of life where things are beginning to break down—physically, emotionally, materially. And yet, I’m more drawn than ever to plant seeds of possibility, purpose, and potential. My measure of quality in life is no longer about accumulation or achievement, but about contribution. It’s about finding that sacred sweet spot where I can be of service—where what I offer matters. As a visitor here on this sacred Earth, how I leave it—and what I leave behind—matters deeply to me. I live with the intention to treat all things a...