OK=Open & Kind


Open and kind abbreviated is OK. Open to accept whatever arises. Kindly showing both inner and outer compassion I best go forth.

OK gives me greater grace, awe and wonder. In my journey may I be OK so to enjoy the blessings of life.  With enthusiasm may I be happy, free and well!  Celebrating my new possibility with each new breath. Breaking from my past conditioning I can reframe these patterns into the gifts showing increased love.

How can I best cultivate a friendly and free way of being?  Being OK gives where I wisely proceed with moment to moment awareness.  Ignoring my the voice of my inner critic.

Exercising my greater potential happens when I fully listen.  Overcoming my shadows I find purpose see everything as a child would. Embracing my defects I find that home is right where my heart is.  All things are sacred if only I can remember to arrive back here and now.

It is time for me to let go of old ancestral messages that I am not enough.  For me to fully foster a mindset of potential I enjoy what is fully present.  This in turn moves me in greater courage further expanding  my luminous abilities. 

I am not tentative, I no longer doubt, I embrace my shortcomings.  Waiting I find that harmonious relations will kindly result. 

Since all things are connected I can best show reverence to life’s sacred hoop being well.  OK is about embodying greater purpose,  possibility and potential.

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