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Country Club or Club for Our Country?

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“I would never join a club that would have me as a member.” — Groucho Marx As a young tennis player winning tournaments, I learned an old truth: to be the best in the country, you had to play in the city. But the city’s country clubs weren’t just athletic centers—they were gatekeepers.Competing at places like Chevy Chase Club exposed me early to a world where privilege dictated access.  Tennis became my first education in the divide between wealth and labor. My father, a Capitol Hill staffer who helped write Medicaid and Medicare, co-founded the Capitol Hill Tennis Team, which I joined as a boy. The little time I spent with him was on the court. Even then, I sensed the tension between public service and private privilege—between the ideals he worked on and the exclusivity surrounding the sport we shared. As a tennis professional, I moved between two Americas. I taught at Edgemoor Club, Bryce Resort, Chevy Chase Club, Palm Beach Polo, and elite schools such as Holton-Arm...

Oh Shenandoah: County of Plenty?

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Growing up in the D.C. area, I used to go camping a hundred miles west of the city. I never imagined I would one day spend half my life there. Yet here I am, settled in the heart of the Shenandoah Valley, where I fell in love with the landscape, the simplicity, and the sense of community that holds this place together. When I first arrived, people were scraping by. Many were eating beans and rice, earning less than five dollars an hour, and struggling just to break even. Life was modest, but neighbors looked out for one another. Thirty‑four years ago, I bought my land for $8,000 -- 4.3 acres, a quarter‑acre of it a dry run, the rest rocks and shale. Today, the county says that the same land is worth $90,000, and they’ve assessed my house at roughly $70,000, well above what major real‑estate sites estimate. Meanwhile, my electric bill has climbed steadily, rising about twelve percent on average, mirroring increases in gas and other household costs. Stagflation feels closer t...

Celebrate—and Be—a Lorax

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  Dr. Seuss’s favorite book was The Lorax. When the story opens, the land has fallen silent. A child wanders through a gray and barren world. The Lorax steps forward and declares, “I speak for the trees, for the trees have no tongues.” This is no children’s tale. It is a parable for now. Few Americans today remember Roosevelt’s “Tree Army”—the Civilian Conservation Corps, born in the hunger years of 1933 and ended in the shadow of 1942. In less than a decade, three million young men planted more than three billion trees, restored wounded lands, and built the parks and pathways that still cradle our footsteps. They carved Skyline Drive along the Blue Ridge spine, raised bridges, shaped trails, and left behind a geography of hope. For more than a century, nations have understood that tending the land also tends the human spirit. Sustainability, discipline, resilience, cooperation—these are the virtues the earth teaches to those willing to work with their hands in the soil...

Well‑Being = Liberation

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My well‑being grows from accepting what is. Wisdom comes from discernment and the cultivation of virtue. When I meet life with openness, even troubling moments become opportunities to learn. Expectations narrow my world; releasing them expands it. A resilient, spacious mindset liberates me. As awareness grows, resistance softens, and I navigate circumstances with greater ease. When my actions align with purpose, I feel renewed. Leaving things better than I found them affirms responsibility. Kindness becomes radical self‑care. Respectful responses foster integrity, and this care frees me. Acceptance and “being the change” create liberation. Small intentions ripple into larger benefits. Insight brings equanimity in demanding times. May I turn curses into blessings and find treasure in misfortune. May higher purpose guide me. May I cultivate reverence for people, places, and things. May I celebrate an expanded sense of freedom. Applying my virtues in difficulty brings harmony....

Wise Savings: The 5 Ps of the Environment

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Magical Rescue Center

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I define magic as the moment when a virtuous intention draws sacred attention.   I’ve been fortunate to travel widely, but this trip felt different. It wasn’t just about visiting somewhere warm and beautiful—it was about doing something meaningful. I came to Costa Rica not only for adventure but to spend time with animals and contribute, even in a small way. What I found was a magical connection rooted in community and belonging.   The organization I partnered with prepared me thoroughly for the rescue center near San José. Still, my timing was off—I arrived during spring break, when college students filled the streets. Add to that a Sunday traffic jam, likely caused by a soccer game, and my journey was anything but smooth.   By the time I reached the center, I was exhausted but relieved. My simple single room had a brand-new toilet and warm showers—comforts I appreciated immediately. The trip itself was modest in cost, but the richness of the e...

🎭 One Court Jester’s Story

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🎭 One Jokers Tale I became Ray Cycle—the joker who always comes around. For 45 years, I’ve played the court jester of resource saving, mocking how the consumer is consumed by our affluent waste. Only the fool can mock madness without losing his head. But these days, even the jester must dodge the trash compactor.   I meet tragedy with comedy now. The comic can change; the tragic cannot. The jester decodes insanity, reframes unbearable reality. Satire is my alchemy—turning sorrow into survival. Laughing is better than crying; otherwise, despair wins.   It all began on April Fools’ Day, 1988. In full jester regalia, I appeared on the Capitol steps. My Republican congresswoman sponsored the act—and even showed up at noon to watch.   My first live comic act of resource saving? A line that bombed on the Capitol steps:   “You’re not dealing with a full deck when you throw out the joker! Recycle our nation’s capital.”   I called it...