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Girls Nature Camps

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​One thing I wish to devote the rest of my life to is getting children out into the woods—a landscape I have called home for a third of my life. Having taught young girls for over 55 years, I believe it is essential to build their self-esteem. Just on the other side of the mountain where I live sits a magical place called Camp Strawderman. This amazing girls' camp is nestled in a beautiful hollow, bordered by Stony Creek on one side and Three Mile Mountain on the other. ​At Camp Strawderman today, young girls from all over the country come to experience a true rite of passage. They live in rustic cabins, go without air conditioning, and embrace limited cell phone use. The camp's roots run incredibly deep; the land itself was settled two and a half centuries ago by a pioneer named Peter Strawderman.  Much later, in 1929, the girls' camp was officially founded when a group of Girl Scouts came up from Harrisonburg, led by Margaret Hoffman, whose father had purchase...

​The Peril of a Leadership Purge

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​When a nation deliberately eliminates its military leaders and wipes out its institutional knowledge, it places its national security in grave peril. Throughout history, the systematic dismantling of command structures has rarely been a sign of strength; instead, it is a self-inflicted wound that leaves a country dangerously vulnerable to its adversaries. The most catastrophic historical warning of this hubris lies in the 1930s. During the Great Purge, Joseph Stalin decimated the Red Army's leadership. Driven by intense paranoia and an obsessive desire to consolidate absolute power, Stalin executed or imprisoned tens of thousands of experienced officers. The result was a military left leaderless, fractured, and ill-equipped to face the existential threat of World War II just years later. ​Today, we are witnessing a different, yet deeply concerning, manifestation of this impulse. In a sweeping overhaul of American military leadership, Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth has ...

Re‑Governing: Reducing Waste

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The aftermath of our recent war exemplifies our federal waste. The United States government continues to spend far more than it takes in. Federal debt is projected to reach $53 trillion by 2036 without major policy changes.  Most Americans sense the danger: more than 75% believe Washington spends too much, and in 2025 Senator Rand Paul identified $1.6 trillion in documented waste. The waste industry—often dismissed or overlooked—offers one of the clearest models for redesigning an inefficient government. After decades working on used‑oil recycling and evaluating landfill financial assurance, one lesson stands out: design determines outcomes. Waste‑management companies are widely considered recession‑resistant because their essential, non‑discretionary services generate steady cash flow even in downturns.  The government could learn from that discipline.The familiar “third R”—reduce—remains essential. But without rigorous full‑cost accounting, we cannot manage natur...

PRO Tennis

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Tennis has never been just a sport to me—it’s a mindful dance in motion, a dance with the here and now. This magical intention I call PRO Zen Play, where the racket becomes a tuning fork for attention and consistent tennis. Playing in the blazing summer heat is its own bootcamp for presence. Tennis is full of shifting mental weather systems—gusts of doubt, flashes of confidence, storms of frustration. Each one is an invitation to return to the now. My secret formula? Intention + Attention.  The more I lean into effortlessness, the more the game shifts from struggle to flow. At the heart of it is my simple acronym:  PRO—Pause, Relax, Open.  -Pause between points to slow the mind, respond rather than react, and sharpen concentration. -Relax to melt tension and let errors dissolve. -Open to expand perception, embrace unpredictability, and meet the moment as it is.  My path into tennis began with a question to the legendary Pauline Betz Addie—a world champion...

Our Nation’s Treasure in Our Classrooms

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Reader Commentary | nvdaily.com https://share.google/ID7SjLRoYHy6gvtXQ I grew up lucky. Adults took the time to guide me, teach me, and nudge me forward. I learned tennis because older people invested their patience and skill in me, and that attention shaped the course of my life. In the late 1970s, while I was teaching tennis, I began volunteering—what I called happy returns.  Giving back has given me a purposeful life.Over the years—from major schools to my early days at Bryce Resort in 1980—I’ve taught children and adults, freely giving thousands of hours of instruction. My reward comes when former students return years later to thank me.  Building community is priceless. Our greatest national treasure is the attention we give our children.Recently, I volunteered at Robinson Elementary School in Woodstock. Watching a first‑grade teacher command a room full of six‑year‑olds—balancing discipline, curiosity, and joy—reminded me how demanding and noble this work is....

Country Club or Club for Our Country?

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“I would never join a club that would have me as a member.” — Groucho Marx As a young tennis player winning tournaments, I learned an old truth: to be the best in the country, you had to play in the city. But the city’s country clubs weren’t just athletic centers—they were gatekeepers.Competing at places like Chevy Chase Club exposed me early to a world where privilege dictated access.  Tennis became my first education in the divide between wealth and labor. My father, a Capitol Hill staffer who helped write Medicaid and Medicare, co-founded the Capitol Hill Tennis Team, which I joined as a boy. The little time I spent with him was on the court. Even then, I sensed the tension between public service and private privilege—between the ideals he worked on and the exclusivity surrounding the sport we shared. As a tennis professional, I moved between two Americas. I taught at Edgemoor Club, Bryce Resort, Chevy Chase Club, Palm Beach Polo, and elite schools such as Holton-Arm...

Oh Shenandoah: County of Plenty?

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Growing up in the D.C. area, I used to go camping a hundred miles west of the city. I never imagined I would one day spend half my life there. Yet here I am, settled in the heart of the Shenandoah Valley, where I fell in love with the landscape, the simplicity, and the sense of community that holds this place together. When I first arrived, people were scraping by. Many were eating beans and rice, earning less than five dollars an hour, and struggling just to break even. Life was modest, but neighbors looked out for one another. Thirty‑four years ago, I bought my land for $8,000 -- 4.3 acres, a quarter‑acre of it a dry run, the rest rocks and shale. Today, the county says that the same land is worth $90,000, and they’ve assessed my house at roughly $70,000, well above what major real‑estate sites estimate. Meanwhile, my electric bill has climbed steadily, rising about twelve percent on average, mirroring increases in gas and other household costs. Stagflation feels closer t...